Your experience is a direct result of your perspective. Your experience will be clouded depending on whether your view about an event is positive or negative.
Yesterday here in Texas the weather was rainy and a cool 45 degrees. While I was walking out of a store a woman was walking in, she said “where did summer go? Isn’t this awful?”
I responded “I love the rain!
The weather, or any event, is neither positive nor negative; it’s our response to the event that creates how we feel. Our response creates our experience of the event as either positive or negative.
Which would you prefer today, to feel positive or negative, happy or miserable? Just for today notice how you respond to the events in your life.